By Afra Mamman Garba
In today’s world, many girls face challenges such as disrespect, abuse, and unfair treatment. Some people hurt or take advantage of them, which is completely wrong. Every girl deserves love, care, and respect.
Girls are not toys to be played with or used for anyone’s pleasure. They are strong, intelligent, and capable of becoming great leaders, doctors, teachers, and inventors.
Girls are not “weaker vessels.” They have dreams and talents just like boys do. No one should ever harm or mistreat a girl in any way. When a girl is hurt or abused, the damage can last for a long time. That is why everyone must learn to treat others with kindness, respect, and care.
Parents have a very important role to play in protecting their children. They should take time to talk to them about their lives at school and at home.
When children feel loved and listened to, they are more likely to open up and share their problems. Love, care, and attention are powerful, they help children make better choices and feel safe.
Parents should also teach their children about growing up and making responsible decisions. Good sex education helps young people understand their bodies, respect themselves, and know the right time for certain things.
Children must understand that rushing into adult activities can bring pain and regret. Respecting yourself and waiting until the right time shows strength and self-control.
Sometimes, when a girl is treated badly or talked about publicly, it can hurt her feelings and lower her self-esteem. This is also a form of abuse. Everyone, both boys and girls, must learn never to shame or laugh at others. Instead, we should support one another and show empathy.
Parents should pay attention to the kind of clothes their children wear and the friends they keep. This is not about judging them, but about protecting them from danger and bad influence. Guidance helps children stay on the right path.
Parents must also lead by example. When children see their parents acting with respect, honesty, and discipline, they are more likely to do the same.
There is an old saying: “It is better to be safe than sorry.” This means it is always better to make wise decisions early than to regret them later.
Afra Mamman Garba is an SS1 of Key Special Academy
