By Muhammad Alamin Ishaq
In today’s world, parents play a major role in shaping the career choices of their children. This influence can be either positive or negative, depending on how it is expressed.
Parental influence on career choice refers to the guidance, opinions, expectations, and support that affect the career path a child decides to pursue. There are several reasons why and how parents influence these choices.
Firstly, experience and knowledge often shape parents’ opinions. Based on their own life experiences, parents may encourage or discourage certain professions. For example, a parent who once pursued a career that wasn’t profitable may advise their child to avoid that path or any similar field.
Secondly, expectations and values play a big part. Many parents rate some careers higher than others. In many African societies, for instance, science-related careers like medicine or engineering are often seen as more prestigious than art-related or sports careers. This cultural mindset can pressure children into choosing fields that don’t match their true passions.
Lastly, family tradition also influences career decisions. In families where generations have followed the same profession; like doctors, farmers, or lawyers, parents often expect their children to continue the legacy.
Parental influence can have positive effects, such as providing guidance, financial support, and encouragement. However, it can also have negative effects, including limited freedom of choice, lack of motivation, or neglect of a child’s natural talents.
While children should be encouraged to choose careers that align with their interests and strengths, parental guidance remains important. The key is balance, parents should guide, not control, allowing their children to make informed and fulfilling career choices.
Muhammad Alamin Ishaq is a student of Fou’ad lababidi Islamic academy
